2 And in order to obtain the highest, [ Degree in the celestial kingdom. Celestial marriage is not a pre-requisite to enter the celestial kingdom but rather it is the essence of what that kingdom entails. You have to enter together, as partners, it is not just checking a box, it is more than just having been married. It is because of what you will be required to do as a partnership. Elder Mark E. Petersen at a priesthood leadership meeting one day drew a big circle on the whiteboard - back when they used to visit and teach from the whiteboard. In the middle of the circle he then drew two lines all way through the circle. He noted that this is the celestial kingdom, and asked who resides in the upper portion of the Celestial kingdom. He took information from the priesthood brethren. The correct answers where what is mentioned here. He then asked who dwells in the middle portion of that kingdom? Then he asked who dwells in the lower portion of that kingdom, what are their qualifications to reside there? He took the answers and then he drew a really big question mark in the lower two quadrants and simple said "You apparently know something I don't. But of course that is because I'm just an apostle of the Lord Jesus Christ". So it punctuated that fact that we should not speculate. ] a man [ Mankind - OR a woman. A couple, upon being sealed, enters into the patriarchal “order of the priesthood.” Each spouse, equal in all things and responsibilities, holds this most important priesthood together as a patriarch and matriarch to their family. They have entered into “this order of the priesthood, meaning the new and everlasting covenant of marriage.” There can be no patriarch without a matriarch and each has separate responsibilities in this order of father and mother. This is the same priesthood that Adam and Eve were blessed with before the fall (Gen. 1:28).1 It is the same priesthood that they had after the fall, with divided responsibilities in mortality. This “order of the priesthood” is the order of heaven and inherent in the couple who have been sealed together, with the same commission in life as our first parents was given in the Garden of Eden. The main responsibility of this patriarchal priesthood, which the married couple jointly holds, is to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of their children, by instruction and ordinance. ] must enter into This order of the priesthood [ This "order of the priesthood” is connected to the marriage and sealing ordinance of a husband and wife. This sealing is the entrance or gate into that "order of the priesthood” or the "patriarchal priesthood". The sealed couple becomes a patriarch and matriarch to their family and posterity. Anciently, to become the birthright son, one must not only be sealed to a matriarch but also have the authority of the Melchizedek Priesthood (the inherent authority of Christ) to function as the ‘prophet, priest and king’ (outside the direct family line) for all his father’s posterity when a worthy patriarch may be absent. Can a man do this by himself? note that temple marriage is an order in the Melchezideck priesthood. Specifically the Patriarchal order of the Priesthood. Symbolically referenced at the altar of the temple when a man and a woman are sealed together. As referenced by the grip as well. ] [ Meaning the new [ The word new in this context means that this covenant was newly restored in our dispensation. (https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/doctrine-and-covenants-and-church-history-seminary-teacher-manual-2014/section-6/lesson-138-doctrine-and-covenants-131?lang=eng) ] and everlasting covenant [ Another name for the new and everlasting covenant of marriage is the patriarchal priesthood, They have to be sealed. Why? Because the two become God. The two are God. That's why when God created man, the scripture says: “God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them” (Gen 1:27). God is two people—it's just that simple. God—that celestial couple, that deity—has decided to be called “Father.” There is no better way to convey the idea to mortals who are organized in families. There is no better way to convey the concept that God is a loving, kind, protective, providing, and caring Father. A father embraces all those things. ‘Mother’ somewhat conveys that concept, but does not quite express the level of protection and the provision that the term ‘father’ does. So God, composed of two people, decided to be called “Father.” The two are actually God. They are Eloheim. The new and everlasting covenant of marriage is the order of the patriarchal priesthood. The matriarch holds the same priesthood as does the patriarch. In a general sense what is the new and everlasting covenant? It is the gospel in it's fullness. "Now there is a clear-cut definition of the new and everlasting covenant. It is everything the fulness of the gospel. So marriage properly performed, baptism, ordination to the priesthood, everything else every contract, every obligation, every performance that pertains to the gospel of Jesus Christ, which is sealed by the Holy Spirit of promise according to his law here given, is part of the new and everlasting covenant. (Doctrines of Salvation, 1:158)" How is it new? It is new every time it is revealed anew following a period of apostasy. How is it everlasting? It is not new to God it has been with him forever - everlasting. It is everlasting in the sense that it is God’s covenant and has been enjoyed in every gospel dispensation where people have been willing to receive it. It is everlasting in the fact that it is eternal in nature. Here we are talking about a specific ordinance of the new and everlasting covenant which is what? Marriage What is unique about this ordinance? There are only two ordinances in the church that are done in the name of the Father son and the Holy Ghost - they are Baptism and Marriage Sealing. All covenants between God and man are part of the everlasting covenant.- It is the gospel as it stands in that dispensation here the marriage for eternity is added as part of the new and everlasting covenant, Those who enter into these promises receive the same blessing as Adam and Eve, Abraham and Sarah, Isaac and Rebekah, and so forth. What is the significance of this being done in the name of the Father son and the Holy Ghost? Just as we witness and join with all three in baptism we as do so with our respective husband or wife over the altar, this new covenant forms a new unit in the church with each covenant made - Elder Dallin Oaks Mar 1, 2008 Jordan River Temple marriage ceremony. Where else in the bible does it talk about new and everlasting covenant?.
 I will establish my covenant between me and you: Gen. 17:7;
 He shall have the covenant of an everlasting priesthood: Num. 25:13;
		The people changed the ordinances and broke the everlasting covenant: Isa. 24:5; ( D&C 1:15; )
		I will make an everlasting covenant with you: Isa. 55:3; ( Jer. 32:40; )
		It shall be an everlasting covenant: Ezek. 37:26;
		The Lord made a new covenant, and the old passed away: Heb. 8:13;
		Jesus is the mediator of the new covenant: Heb. 12:24; ( D&C 76:69; )
		This is a new and an everlasting covenant: D&C 22:1;
		I have sent my everlasting covenant into the world: D&C 45:9; ( D&C 49:9; )
		The Lord sent the fulness of his gospel, his everlasting covenant: D&C 66:2; ( D&C 133:57; )
		In order to obtain the highest degree in the celestial kingdom, a man must enter into the new and everlasting covenant of marriage: D&C 131:1–2;
		The new and everlasting covenant was instituted for the fulness of the Lord’s glory: D&C 132:6, 19;] of marriage];	
8 We cannot see it; [ Unless we have been purified. Just because we cannot see it does not mean that it is not there either. Aura around others in near death experience. ] but when our bodies are purified we shall see that it is all matter. [ And when our bodies have been purified we will be able to see this matter (or the spirits who's make up is of the fine or pure material). When we have received the more sure word of prophecy we will be able to see them, with pur natural eyes. While we are in the process of becoming able to do so we can feel them, know that they are there, see them through dreams - but to look at them we must become changed to the point that are bodies are pure. Remember our spirit is often more pure than our body - the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. It is when our body has become pure. ]
[ Historical Material Pertaining to Doctrine & Covenants 131 Excerpt from History of the Church. Except a man and his wife enter into an everlasting covenant and be married for eternity, while in this probation, by the power and authority of the Holy Priesthood, they will cease to increase when they die; that is, they will not have any children after the resurrection. (Joseph Smith, History of the Church, volume 5, page 391) Excerpt from Journal of Discourses The increase of those who are exalted in that kingdom will endure for ever; and the bringing forth of children will not be attended with sorrow, pain and distress as it is here: these evils have come in consequence of the fall of man and the transgression by him of God’s holy laws. (Orson Pratt, Journal of Discourses, volume 15, page 320.) Excerpt from Revelations of the Prophet Joseph Smith Section 131 consists of a variety of doctrinal statements made by Joseph Smith while visiting members of the Church in Ramus, Illinois. The Prophet’s personal scribe, William Clayton, accompanied him on this occasion and preserved Joseph Smith’s remarks in his personal diary On 16 May 1843 Joseph Smith, William Clayton, George Miller, Eliza Partridge, Lydia Partridge, and Lorin Walker traveled to visit the Saints in Ramus. The Prophet and William Clayton spent the evening with Benjamin F. Johnson and the others at the home of William G. Perkins. Before retiring, the Prophet gave Benjamin F. Johnson and his wife some instructions on priesthood, which included verses 1-4 of section 131. Putting his hand on the knee of William Clayton, the Prophet said, “Your life is hid with Christ in God, and so is many others.” Addressing Benjamin F., Joseph said: Nothing but the unpardonable sin can prevent him [Clayton] from inheriting eternal glory for he is sealed up by the power of the priesthood unto eternal life having taken the step which is necessary for that purpose.” The Prophet continued, Except a man and his wife enter into an everlasting covenant and be married for eternity while in this probation by the power and authority of the Holy priesthood they will cease to increase when they die (ie. they will not have any children in the resurrection, but those who are married by the power & authority of the priesthood in this life & continue without committing the sin against the Holy Ghost will continue to increase & have children in the celestial glory. The unpardonable sin is to shed innocent blood or be accessory thereto. All other sins will be visited with judgement in the flesh and the spirit being delivered to the buffetings of satan until the day of the Lord Jesus.... Prest J. said that the way he knew in whom to confide, God told him in whom he might place confidence. He also said that in the celestial glory there was three heavens or degrees, and in order to obtain the highest a man must enter into this order of the priesthood and if he dont he cant obtain it. He may enter into the other but that is the end of his kingdom he cannot have increase. The following morning, 17 May 1843, the Prophet preached from the first chapter of 2 Peter, when verses 5-6 were recorded, At 10 [a.m.] Prest. J. preached on 2nd Peter ch 1. He shewed that knowledge is power & the man who has the most knowledge has the greatest power. Also that salvation means a mans being placed beyond the powers of all his enemies. He said the more sure word of prophecy meant, a mans knowing that he was sealed up unto eternal life by revelation & the spirit of prophecy through the power of the Holy priesthood. He also showed that it was impossible for a man to be saved in ignorance. Paul had seen the third heavens and I more. Peter penned the most sublime language of any of the apostles. In the evening of the same day, the Prophet went to hear Samuel A. Prior, a Methodist preacher. At the close of the preacher’s remarks, Joseph Smith offered some corrections that included verses 7-8: P.M. pres. J. attended the City council & afterwards rode out with B.F. Johnsons family. In the evening we went to hear a Methodist preacher lecture. After he got through Pres. J. offered some corrections as follows. The 7th verse of Chapter 2 Genesis ought to read God breathed into Adam his spirit or breath of life, but when the word “ruach” applies to Eve it should be translated lives. Speaking of eternal duration of matter he said. There is no such thing as immaterial matter. All spirit is matter but is more fine or pure and can only be discerned by purer eyes We cant see it but when our bodies are purified we shall see that it is all matter. The gentleman seemed pleased & said he should visit Nauvoo immediately. (Lyndon W. Cook, The Revelations of the Prophet Joseph Smith) ]